Mel, I fully believe what you said. The key of course is "58 years". I have been licensed 54 years. Learned in a Luscombe 8A. (notorious, no?)
Yes, I was in cowboy country (Phoenix) but only owned cheap tennis shoes. Just my demographic in those days.
Jump to the present. As a CFI, I have given endorsement training for tailwheel transition. Those guys don't do well in big shoes. Boots or otherwise. To one guy with size 14 feet, I asked him to fly the lessons in socks only. He did much better. (his wife"s Cessna 140) He is an airline driver. So, you know where his feet are on every flight....
Had I had cowboy boots on when I began my journey, I bet I would be just like you. In other words, mastered the art of the three point and full stall even with the boots. And avoid ground loops at all costs.. by "dancing" with the rudders.
But in general, to answer the original pilot here who asked... I would have to say to them.... don't go the boot route.
Have a great week out there!