I'm pretty far along on my first build (RV-10) and even though I don't have any particular experience with Molex outside of the computer world, I went with DT and DTM connectors. I am putting connectors at my wing root because my fuselage will be done before I have my wings. This will allow me to complete the wiring in my fuselage, then transport it to the hangar, then later do the wiring in my wings, then transfer them to the hangar, then attach. Similar to a previous comment, I'm trying to minimize the amount of work I'll need to do at the final assembly stage.