To paraphrase Indiana Jones, "Gaskets and sealing......why does it always have to be gaskets and sealing?"
Maybe I'm the only one who used both a cork gasket AND proseal to seal both the sender to the access plate, and the access plate to the tank. So far (1400 hrs, 11 years) no leaks. Yes, I know, that and $5 gets me a small fancy coffee at Starbucks

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So, why both? Given that I don't trust a standard flat gasket installed between two thin sheet metal surfaces to never leak, even when properly torqued (as in NOT OVER TORQUED), I decided to try a gasket+proseal combination. As previously mentioned, it has not leaked. As a second benefit, the cork gasket is sacrificial and provides a thicker "insert razor blade here" zone if the fuel sender or tank cover ever needs to be removed. I did have a chance to test removing this combination prior to first flight, when I needed to remove the cover plate and install the fuel pickup anti-rotation bracket. Was it easier to remove? Maybe....never compared it to a proseal only installation.
As a strange coincidence, I will have to remove both tank senders in the near future. (Fuel leak through the sender itself. Plus, both fuel gauge readings have recently been erratic...wandering up and down when they used to be steady.) So, maybe I'll go with proseal only on these.