LettersFromFlyoverCountry
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For a long time, I've wanted to write an article about homebuilding and marriage.
There are at least three types of marriages surrounding homebuilding.
* The fully engaged spouse who really is into the project.
* The spouse who is supportive of the project but doesn't want to participate. He/she has their own thing going and makes clear the project isn't hers/his, it's yours.
* The divorced spouse. It probably didn't collapse because someone decided to build an airplane, but it probably didn't help.
There are plenty of examples of the first scattered around VAF and I've enjoyed talking to them over the years and will probably circle back if I go ahead with this research.
I need only walk into the next room to meet the second kind. And they're pretty easy to find.
So I'm not too worried about providing their perspective and tips for keeping a marriage intact during an airplane build.
The third is the hardest to find, at least in terms of getting everyone to talk to a writer and be open about a failed marriage and an airplane project. And I'm not really interested in grinding marital axes. I want to find people who lost a marriage, who would've liked to have it have succeeded, and are introspective about things.
So I don't really know if this will get anywhere but it's worth putting out there. If you are in the THIRD group, and you'd be willing to talk about the strain a project put on a marriage, what you would/wouldn't do differently etc., please send me a PM or contact me at [email protected].
I think an article of this magnitude and research would be very helpful for married people considering building an airplane.
There are at least three types of marriages surrounding homebuilding.
* The fully engaged spouse who really is into the project.
* The spouse who is supportive of the project but doesn't want to participate. He/she has their own thing going and makes clear the project isn't hers/his, it's yours.
* The divorced spouse. It probably didn't collapse because someone decided to build an airplane, but it probably didn't help.
There are plenty of examples of the first scattered around VAF and I've enjoyed talking to them over the years and will probably circle back if I go ahead with this research.
I need only walk into the next room to meet the second kind. And they're pretty easy to find.
So I'm not too worried about providing their perspective and tips for keeping a marriage intact during an airplane build.
The third is the hardest to find, at least in terms of getting everyone to talk to a writer and be open about a failed marriage and an airplane project. And I'm not really interested in grinding marital axes. I want to find people who lost a marriage, who would've liked to have it have succeeded, and are introspective about things.
So I don't really know if this will get anywhere but it's worth putting out there. If you are in the THIRD group, and you'd be willing to talk about the strain a project put on a marriage, what you would/wouldn't do differently etc., please send me a PM or contact me at [email protected].
I think an article of this magnitude and research would be very helpful for married people considering building an airplane.
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