To the OP -
It sounds liek you haven;t bought the airplane yet, so you can;t go experiment…but if/when you do own the RV-8, you shoudl go out with various progressively aft CG’s and decide where YOUR limit is - then you can back-figure what rear seat weight that corresponds to.
What we have found with the -8’s that have a constant speed prop is they can be just fine at the aft limit until you are decelerating in the flare. With the big flat prop, they decelerate very fast, and as the airplane slows below about 70 knots, the stick force gradient can reverse at aft CG…in other words, you have to PUSH on the stuck (slightly) to keep the nose from rising. This can be very disconcerting to someone who has never experienced it!
To answer your question directly - I find that a 220 lb passenger is about my limit in the -8 - at that point, the stick force gradient DOES reverse (or go to neutral) and that gets a bit fun, especially if I’m trying to land short.