I received many responses to my post. So I thought it is best to post the hacks here for future reference.
Here is how I improved my manual flaps in 2006 and have enjoyed them for 18 years.
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The button as it comes from Van's is designed to stop at contact with the tube. This is OK until you age and your thumb starts to get pinched between the head of the button and the end of the tube. I removed the button and filled in the space between the guide and the head using some Epoxy putty. I then belt sanded down the head and epoxy to the same diameter as the guide... This does two things, 1. the button now pushes further into the tube for more release clearance. And 2, it can no longer pinch your thumb.
The hose clamp in the photo is holding a nylon bushing in place to allow the handle to slide up and down without contacting the front of the slot.
Zoom in on the flap anchor..... notice the second notch is ramped up on the top of the notch.
I did that to allow the second notch of flaps to be extended without pushing the button.... just grab and pull. You do not want to do that with the bottom notch, only the notches between the bottom and the top... Most RV's have two notches of flaps.
I re-made the the flap anchor and placed the the notches where I could lower the handle and have just enough room to get my hand around it.
If you are making this change to a 7, you will need to layout your flap brace using the radius of your flap weldment because the weldment is mounted behind the bulkhead. (mounted in front on the 6). You will need to figure your flap degree locations on the flap anchor as they have changed due to lowering the handle.
I installed a small screw and nylock at the top of the flap anchor for piece of mind.
The biggest change was to make my seatbacks the same width as used on the RV4....
12 inches. This made it possible to reach behind the passenger seat during flight. It gave me more elbow room for my left arm.... My arm rests are only 1/2 as wide as stock, and still work great. BUT THE BIGGEST change the eight inches between the seats made was elbow room when pulling the flap handle.
Does the shorter flap handle make it harder to apply the flaps....No!! If you slow to flap speed, the flaps pop right down.
This configuration is far better than the stock RV6 flaps. It is a shame they gave up on manual flaps, they work soooo good without the extra cost and issues that electric flaps have. They will never fail you.
In the picture attached, the total length including the button is 11 inches.