Flap position ? I find the 10 for me has lower demonstrated cross-wind than my 14. The flaps proportionally on the 10 are longer than the 14 and flap position makes a big difference where I lose the ability to keep the fuselage in line with the runway. I typically transition from a crab to a slip around 300 ft and that gives me enough time to evaluate if I can get it aligned. If not I go around and try half flaps. (I have 10, 25 and full flaps programmed in my system). Normally anything over 15 knots gusting to 20 cross wind component I use 25 degrees and don’t even try a full flap landing on either airframe. I’m not sure if that’s even the correct technique but seems to work. Speed seems to scrub off pretty quickly with a decent cross wind so getting it slowed down not an issue. Plus I have Beringer brakes on both airframes which helps if needed. CFI inputs welcome.
You asked for cfi inputs and I am a cfi. But that doesn’t necessarily mean my opinions are any more valid than others’. They’re what works for me. So:
IMHO the ‘danger zone’ on crosswind landings is not the approach and touchdown, rather, it’s the higher speed part of the roll out, say around 50 knots airspeed or so, where both main wheels are on the runway and the ailerons can no longer hold much bank angle, so tire friction is all that keeps you on the runway. But the wings are still generating some lift, so there is not full weight on the wheels, limiting friction. For this reason I never land no-flaps, you spend too much time in this higher speed but on the runway depending on friction zone. Obviously, a wet runway makes this much worse. I’ll use full flaps for x-winds of 15 knots or less, half flaps up to 20 or, if I have to, 25 knot x-winds. At 30 knots I wonder what I was thinking. (Note: you’ll notice most modern airliners automatically deploy spoilers at touchdown. This kills the lift, puts more weight on the wheels, to lessen their not enough friction issue during this high speed roll out phase.)
The -10 is a very good crosswind plane, because it has great rudder authority. I used to own a 182 which was pretty good in crosswinds, but the 10 is clearly better.
Transitioning from crab to slip at 300’ agl is what I have student pilots do, because they need practice flying the plane in a slip, with cross-controls, etc. There’s nothing wrong with this. However, it is not uncommon for the wind at 300’ to be different (often stronger) than the wind at 10’ agl, so this conservative approach will often result in go-arounds from approaches which turn out to be quite doable. Note: for long approaches flown in a slip, be sure to position the fuel selector to the raised wing. In uncoordinated flight the fuel will run away from the pickup in the lowered wing. So I personally fly a crab all the way down to, and into, the flare. Usually add 5 knots airspeed to account for the extra drag as soon as I transition to a slip, more if it’s gusty. As the nose comes up above the horizon, and the vertical speed is momentarily zero, I can usually judge if this is going to work out. If the crab angle is excessive, I go around. Otherwise, I swing the nose to point down the runway, lower the upwind wing, and enter the slip just before touchdown (when I get it right). The textbooks call this ‘the combination method’, combining a slip with the ‘kick it straight at the last moment’ technique.
BTW, I’m curious why you don’t have a pre-select position for ‘flaps in trail’ (about 3 deg lower than full up). Vans allows flaps in trail with no speed limits, and the wing designer (Steve Smith, here on VAF) recommends in trail for best Vy, and also for heavy/high altitude cruise.