No. At the moment of your death, everything you own is frozen and probate courts decide what assets go where and nothinggoes ANYWHERE until the govt weighs in and decides how much they will be taking. Assuming a simple will or no will. Any asset in the trust bypasses this and the trustee can do whatever they want with the assets, including transferring it to themselves. With a will, If you are listed as dead, your wife can’t go in with that form and execute a transfer.
Most trusts have a general asset bucket and this includes all property and financial instruments that were owned by the current trustee (that is you before your death) not specifically moved to the trust via name change. Cars, boats planes, bank accounts, etc. there are some guidelines on value though. Once the asset is above a certain amount, the attorneys recommend registering the asset in the trusts name. Unsure what that number is, but remember my attorney saying over $100k. I would expect most states will not charge tax when moving YOUR assets to YOUR revocable trust. Most treat this not as a sale, but a name change. Irrevocable trusts are more like gifts to others and would be a taxable event.
An example, our attorney had us re title the home from a joint ownership to being solely owned by my wife. Something about balancing asset values in case death tax rates are reduced in the future. This was a non taxable event.