I want him to be comfortable flying with me from minute one. .
Jack,
I suspect that anyone who PIC sends will fit this description. Truth is, the cfi will put some trust in you. Trust that the airplane is safe to fly, trust that you can perform basic flying, etc. Any cfi that doesn't have the "comfortable flying with strangers" personality usually has a nervous breakdown within 6 months, and is gone! -
I'm sure there was some artistic license in the "day and a half to get acquainted" comment. About 15 minutes to show him all the various displays should suffice. Then, in flight, he may say, "bring up the HSI display with the main CDI on the gps and the RMI needle on nav 1", and expect you to do it. (IF you don't know how to do that, then you need to come up to speed on the ground, prior to training, either with the manual (as Dave said, like reading a dictionary) or someone (anyone who knows the system) helping.)
Have you called PIC and asked them questions? I would specifically ask about the simulator they use. Almost certainly it will not mock up your panel. I don't think this is necessarily a bad thing, but it may mean it will take longer than 10 days for you as you learn two different systems.
I would also ask them about exploring the full capabilities of your panel. For example, will they give you practice with both a conventional ("bars and nose dot") AI indicator display and an inverted V flight director display? Or to get it done in 10 days do they need to restrict you to the basic display, with no help from the autopilot software?
Also ask them about the written. Since it's best if you take the flight test soon after the PIC course, they will probably recommend you have the ifr written done before starting. (I think that's good advice in any event.) Preparing for the written will also give you some idea of the navigation set ups you're going to need, which in turn will help guide you thru the capabilities of your panel that you need to know.
Finally, keep David's comments in mind. Whether it's a 10 day cram course or a more traditional route, you need to make a commitment to continuous training afterwards.