Ideally every rivet should be set with *one* hit. Practically, of course, that's not possible. So we have to chose a rivet gun that gives us a combination of minimum number of hits to set the rivet, and controllability so we don't cover our aircraft in smilies.
I know a RV builder who used a 3X gun until the RV's started coming with pre-built spars, now he uses a 2X for everything. I know others who have used only 3X guns. I have a 3X. Personally, I think if you can learn to control a 3X, it'll be better for you in the long run... If you don't need a full 3X hit, then modulate your trigger or your air supply to tone it down. You'll figure it out, just try it on some practise pieces, and use them to practise drilling rivets out too. That's another good skill to have.
Finally, I highly recommend the Sioux 3X gun. The trigger teases quite nicely, and the gun is very well made. It is a little more $$$.