Time to build...
Steve,
My slow build RV-7 took me three years and ten months. I rebuilt the engine, did my own paint, and did all of my own panel/wiring. I completely enjoyed building, and now I'm enjoying flying off my phase one time.
My shop is in my backyard, so I could head out at almost any time and spend a couple of hours bucking rivets. Building at home will easily cut your building time in half.
You didn't mention if you have any builder support. I had four or five guys who would stop by regularly and buck rivets, help with the engine rebuild, feed wire through conduit, and tell lots of "hangar flying" stories. I also had family support, especially my wife and 16 year old son. Are you in the local EAA chapter? There's probably a couple of RV builders there, or even some "newbies" who would love to get involved in a project. More hands makes the work easier, more enjoyable, and go much faster!
Finally, head down to the airport and wander around the hangars. It may help if you choose a warmer day when the hangars are opened up. Peek your head in and introduce yourself around. Sometimes just getting in the same hangar with a completed RV will get you motivated. I even managed to get several flights in RV's while I was building by doing this.
Long story short... Just keep on making parts. When you can't make any more parts, start bolting the parts together. When there are no more parts to bolt together, put some gas in it and go flying.
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