Mine were also in the RA box.
I ordered spare AN960-6,8 & 10 washers, #8/#10 internal/ext tooth lockwashers, AN365-832/1032 nuts, AN3 bolts, MS #6/#8 screws, cherrymax csk/univ rivets from ACS in the beginning.
Ordered snap bushing/grommet/wire terminal kit from SteinAir. Has came in real handy. Most hardware is inexpensive compared to everything else but really gets aggravating when you are trying to get something put together and don't have what you need.
Van's does not supply both contactors which every RV-10 is going to need. If you make any modifications or want to install your own wiring/top com antenna or anything else you will need a bunch of different hardware. Go ahead and order 2' x 2' of .032" and .064" aluminum. You'll need it for various little brackets, covers, doublers and misc throughout the project.
It has been alot of fun for me but I will sure be glad to be finished and flying this fall.