It's all done by feel and not by torque value.
Once the greased bearings are installed, slip when wheel onto the axle.
Rotate the wheel with one hand while tightening the nut. Keep rotating and tightening until you can feel the wheel drag. Once you feel the drag, go ahead and tighten the nut around another 1/2 turn.
That whole exercise seats the bearings.
Then loosen the nut again so there is no drag on the wheel. Then go through the same exercise of spinning and tightening until you feel drag on the wheel. That's where you stop and see what you're working with. If there is still play laterally on the axle, then you need to tighten them up more. If there is no play, then you're done.
It's all a game of touch and feel. You want all the play gone on the wheel, but you want the drag on the wheel to be a minimal as possible.
Phil