Potatoes worth of flaps....
In the RV-8, I simply look out the canopy at the left wing and easily judge what looks about 10 degrees, halfway (~20-25), and full (40).
I also count how many seconds to hold down the flap switch.
~2 seconds for 10 deg (say to myself "one potato two")
~3-4 seconds for 20-25 deg ("one potato two potato three potato")
~7-8 seconds for all the way down.
Back in my primary training days in an old C172-L model, that had a similar flap switch with center off and spring loaded momentary up and down positions, and a flap position indicator on the "A" pillar that was almost impossible to read, when abeam the number on downwind, my CFI would say "throttle back 1500 rpm, slow to 80 mph and gimme four potatoes worth of flaps". The flap motor was pretty slow on that old crate and it took at least four seconds holding the switch down to get 10 degrees.
So now whenever I am flying something with a momentary contact electric flap switch I always think of how many potatoes worth of flaps to put down.