After reading a few posts on the dual comm antennas and my limited knowledge of anything in avionics, why couldn't you just use one antenna with two comm radios?
You can make a hidden COM antenna by stripping off 21 inches of shielding from a piece of coax.
Yes, it's bad (not to mention expensive and smelly) when the Magic Smoke leaks outwhen you transmit, you push a significant amount of power into the antenna. if that were just connected to the other radio, the non-transmitting radio would have it's receiver's front-end damaged. ok, you say, i'll install a switch. problems -- switch would need to be coaxial (for impedance matching and shielding), and if you ever forgot and transmitted on the "wrong" radio (the one without the load), you would most probably damage the transmit section of that radio.
all in all, not a good idea.