RVbySDI
Well Known Member
To Doug and the other moderators.
I know you have the right to close down threads and restrict specific types of comments from being published on this site. However, I fail to see why the thread started by CaptainAvgas asking about why people think there are not more women building RV's needed to be shut down. I read what was posted and did not feel there were un-civil comments being written.
I agree it could be an emotionally charged topic that could fall head long into some very PC driven statements and some down right rude behavior but I believe all of us can recognize that and behave like gentlemen.
The question is a legitimate one that could be explored with civility. Louise had some legitimate points but so did others. I did not take the question to be a slap in the face of Louise or Roberta or any other female RVers out there. I took it to be an intriguing question that explores some underlying mechanisms of our society. Why does a niche industry such as this attract a certain demographic of our society more so than other demographics?
Louise posted her concern about forming such a question by saying we could have just as easily asked "Why no African-Americans". Well why not go on and ask about those who are religious vs. those who are non-religious. How about Republicans vs. Democrats?
The point I am trying to make is that I do not believe the original post was meant as any form of disrespect toward women any more than the above would have been disrespectful toward any of those groups of people. The query was simply a straightforward observation that the poster felt he would like to explore. It is an interesting topic that I myself find intriguing. What is different about men and women that drives, mostly us men, to pursue this type of behavior while women tend not to want to do so?
If Doug or any other moderators feel that this thread should also be closed so be it. However, I do believe it is a legitimate discussion that would merit some very good information for all of us. It could even make us better men for having participated. Again, assuming that everyone remain civil about the conversation. Civility must rule and I would have no qualms about a moderator shutting down a thread that lost that civility. I just did not see that being the case in the other thread.
Live long and prosper.
I know you have the right to close down threads and restrict specific types of comments from being published on this site. However, I fail to see why the thread started by CaptainAvgas asking about why people think there are not more women building RV's needed to be shut down. I read what was posted and did not feel there were un-civil comments being written.
I agree it could be an emotionally charged topic that could fall head long into some very PC driven statements and some down right rude behavior but I believe all of us can recognize that and behave like gentlemen.
The question is a legitimate one that could be explored with civility. Louise had some legitimate points but so did others. I did not take the question to be a slap in the face of Louise or Roberta or any other female RVers out there. I took it to be an intriguing question that explores some underlying mechanisms of our society. Why does a niche industry such as this attract a certain demographic of our society more so than other demographics?
Louise posted her concern about forming such a question by saying we could have just as easily asked "Why no African-Americans". Well why not go on and ask about those who are religious vs. those who are non-religious. How about Republicans vs. Democrats?
The point I am trying to make is that I do not believe the original post was meant as any form of disrespect toward women any more than the above would have been disrespectful toward any of those groups of people. The query was simply a straightforward observation that the poster felt he would like to explore. It is an interesting topic that I myself find intriguing. What is different about men and women that drives, mostly us men, to pursue this type of behavior while women tend not to want to do so?
If Doug or any other moderators feel that this thread should also be closed so be it. However, I do believe it is a legitimate discussion that would merit some very good information for all of us. It could even make us better men for having participated. Again, assuming that everyone remain civil about the conversation. Civility must rule and I would have no qualms about a moderator shutting down a thread that lost that civility. I just did not see that being the case in the other thread.
Live long and prosper.