Just got done with this two days ago. Like you found for the -8, the manual for the RV-9 says nothing about forward spar placement, but does say to put a straight edge against the 3 rudder hinge brackets and shift the forward spar around until the brackets are aligned. At this point the forward spar is at its correct vertical position assuming you've fixed the rear spar already. (A string through the holes would work just as well to measure alignment but it would require another person and a creative position to see through all three hinge holes at once.)
I think this is probably one of those tasks we stress out about but probably don't need to that much. FWIW, my middle hinge shifted maybe 1/64-1/32" out of alignment in the forward spar drilling process and my rudder still swings so freely that I can blow on it and it moves. Good luck.