I've never flown a RV-4 but there is a guy in our group who was one of the early RV-4 builders, Jim Winings. In fact, when Van travels out this way, he stays with Jim. Many of the early improvements to the RV-4 came from Jim and Van and Stan incorporated them into the plans.
Jim flew his RV-4 for years and like you, was totally in love with the harmony of the controls. His airplane was so balanced that he could fly a loop with just two fingers on the stick.
When he built his F1, he was originally very unhappy with the handling. His major complaint was that the elevators were too heavy, so he did two things. One, he replaced the riveted trailing edge elevators with a set that have a rounded edge. Second, he changed the linkage of the elevator bellcrank. This last mod is now standard on all the F1's.
Jim now claims that his Rocket is every bit as responsive as his RV-4 was, only with more go power. With regards to space, there's no comparison. I don't have the exact measurements, but there is much more space in the F1 than the RV-4.
Regarding fuel economy, you can fly a Rocket at the same speeds as a RV-4 180-HP CS prop and burn close to the same fuel......or you can fly 20 kts faster, your choice. I know, I know, it doesn't sound plausible. Well, every single time a gaggle of us fly somewhere, we always fly at the speed of the slowest airplane in the group, usually a 160 HP RV-6A. When we land for fuel, we always compare burns and we are always within a gallon one way or the other with the other 4-bangers in the group.
As far as choice? There is no choice if $$ is not an issue. You can do everything a RV can do and more in a Rocket. Of course, that also includes burning 24 GPH WOT if you choose to do so!