Maybe this will bring some comfort....While dimpling my rudder, I accidently let the nipple get out of one of the freshly match drilled holes. This created what looked like a snake bite in my skin. Some guys on this page made a variety of recommendations, but I ordered a new skin and just drilled it out (not match drilled), deburred, and dimpled. All the stiffeners lined up great even though they were match drilled to a different skin. I know your frustration and I am only a little bit ahead of you (Just finished trim tab). I would cleco them back in and if they look good.....rivet away. Just my un-professional opinion.