Jim,
What's the application?
If it will be repeatedly plugged/unplugged as part of normal operation & it's a 'non-critical' item, there are many choices at your local Radio Shack or local equivalent. (Higher quality versions of the same connectors are available from a good audio supply house. Switchcraft is a good brand.)
The lightest weight ones would probably be the mini-phone plug connectors, similar to the headset connector on an Ipod except mono instead of stereo. You can get the plug and a mating in-line jack. If they don't have the mono version, just buy the stereo & ignore the 'ring' terminals in the connectors. The only real downside to them is lack of locking feature, but if you are hooking up a portable device the lack of lock can be an advantage (snag the wire & it unplugs instead of breaking the wire).
If you need a lock, check out the 'XLR' type connectors used for balanced mic lines in pro audio equipment. They are a *lot* heavier (ounces instead of grams), but do have the lock feature & will carry substantial current loads if you are powering something with this line. They have 3 terminals, but the metal shell can be used as a 4th terminal. All combinations of in-line or panel mount, Male or Female are available.
Charlie