Rocket,
First, hand salute to you for your service...cheers!
Next, let me describe how Kelli and I got to the crux of our mission description.
Me: I want to fly formation and some aerobatics, take the airplane up initial, and have fun. In other words, fly with my hands. But I also love cross-country destinations. For example, I'm dying to fly to/spend the night in the Hangar Hotel in Fredericksburg, TX.
Kelli: She's a wonderful non-pilot spouse/flying partner but, for her, it's not about the journey...it's about the destination. She wants to see relatives, future grandkids, South Padre, etc., and she wants a smooth ride (ie, fly with my fingers). She also does NOT like to fly or drive in the back seat of ANYTHING, so she made it clear that she'll fly beside me.
So, that criteria list looks like:
- Aerobatic
- Smooth and steady flyer when it needs to be
- Side-by-Side seating
- Great cross-country legs
Choices so far: RV-6, RV-7, RV-7A, RV-9, RV-9A
Kelli next said, "No surprises." OK, I figure a ground loop counts as a surprise, and I do want her to travel with me, so that confines me to "A" models. (Note: Part of a successful flying relationship involves clearly understanding and interpreting your partner's criteria, especially when they don't realize they're handing it out).
Next, I'm a little big for a 6.
Next Next, the 9 handles just a tad too stiff for my taste.
Mission Statement: Day/Night VFR crosscountry and sport flying.
My aircraft choice: RV-7A.
That's how we did it. Your mileage may vary.