Well Neal, now you have me thinking.
You are right, in a Stereo, the left is sent on the tip, the right is on the ring, and the common ground is the barrel.
Mono is the tip for signal and barrel for ground.
You can buy simple adapters from
Radio Shanty to get the tip and ring signals from the intercom jack to then send the tip and ring to the tip only.
Easy fix, however something to loose.
Sigtronics says you can wire the SPA-4S to run mono by simply taking the left and right wires and wiring them to the tip contact in the jack. No brain-er.
Sigtronics states that putting a mono plug in a stereo jack will NOT ruin the sigtronics unit, but MAY result in reduced performance.
When I fly with the family, I am the only one with a Stereo set. The rest are mono. I simply plug them all in and the mono sets get audio in both ears and so do I since all inputs except the Audio in are mono anyway. When I have put a stereo source to play into the system via the audio jack, I distinctly get stereo sound. However, I have not checked to see if what the kids hear is one channel (the left) only in both ears which should be the case.
So it appears that I still get full stereo with no reduction of performance between when I fly solo and when I fly with the whole family.
Again, this may be dependent on the intercom as well. So knowing what your intercom is may change the answer.