I needed to extend the threaded portion on the nose gear and found a die of the correct size on eBay for about $70. It worked fine. The name brand dies from specialist tool shops were $200-$400.
It is not hard to find, don't get hung up on the NEF, just look for the 1 1/4-16. 1.25 UNC means -7 pitch, 1.25 UNF is -12 pitch. They are still a 60 degree thread.
What throws me off on Vans Spec, is that the that the ANSI spec for UNEF thread in 1.25" is 18 pitch, not 16.