I got so inclined this summer
I was in the same situation as the OP, and I ended up selecting a modest 2 seat trainer (Beech Skipper) this July. Purchase price with a 2 day assisted annual (by me) was less than you will spend on an engine.
I was originally looking at 4 seat faster aircaft, but in the end my reasoning was that a low performance aircraft would keep me motivated to build.
So far, so good. Still building (but a bit slower) and now flying a lot. I feel more proficient, and am much happier.
The key for me is controlling the maintenance cost. I'm lucky to have a friend (A&P, IA, DER) who is interested in helping me for fun and love of aviation. That makes all the difference. So far I've had a failed vacuum pump, a voltage regulator adjustment, nose gear shimmy damper & bushings, a main landing gear leg attachment problem
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, and an oil change. I've been able to do all the work myself, supervised by my friend, for parts only. At the next annual I have an AD to contend with on all the circuit breaker switches (about $700 in parts) and I'll probably put a new interior and maybe some minor avionics changes.
The landing gear problem alone would have cost me 50% of the aircraft value to fix at a "retail" shop, especially the ones around here. It is incredible what they get for simple tasks.
So my advice is come up with a maintenance strategy and then select an aircraft. If you can do the work yourself somehow, that is best because it allows you to become "one" with your plane, and also benefits the RV construction process. More advice: buy a simple airplane and get all the maintenance publications.
I like the Skipper a lot... it's slow, but flys great (pushrod ailerons) and is unique enough that I get a lot of comments. It's really roomy inside (equal or maybe wider than a 172) and the visibility is great. Handles crosswinds great and has really good heat. Now if I could just get it out of the white arc....
BTW - I did look at the Grummans, but decided that for me they weren't right (didn't like the fast wing, lots of "weird" ones out there).