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Cam:
The answer sounds like you need to just fix the nose gear strut play and fix the fairing brackets with better, stronger ones or leave the nose fairing off. Going to a TD seems like more work than necessary.
As far items like, spacers and fairing bracket cracks, it sound like there is room for improvement. GO to steel or thicker aluminum fairing brackets. The spacer thing and ability to tighten brackets I don?t understand, but all brackets need to be tight and the tire should not rub on the side of the fork or fairing at all. The fairing should be solidly supported. I built two TD's so I am not familure with the nose fairing.
As far as your flying style, it sounds like a 9A is perfect for you. Changing to a TD seems extreme if you are doing it because of the problems some other pilots have had with the nose gear and the few "flight test" phase problems you are having. It took me at least 200 hours to shake out all the little weak points on my RV-4.
I would by all means make getting the nose gear leg play to ZERO a priority. Also I would do everything you can to make sure the tire does not rub on anything (wheel pant fairing, fork). I would keep the nose wheel fairing off until you can figure a way to repair and/or improve the mounting of the fairing. If you re-install install new stock brackets, do so if you can figure a way to tighten the aft brackets. No doubt you know the gap between tire and faring should be generous. The loads on the fairing in theory should be low. Why 4 cracked brackets? [Shimmy loads, tire rubbing, ground impacts, preload brackets (fit), loose barckets (safety wire, Loc tight), deburr/break all sharp edges (stress risers)]
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