Daniel,
I just finished my first tank. Check out my site. I ordered 50' of conduit. 25' would just barely be enough. I wanted to have plenty, and for the price break, I went with the 50' roll.
I am doing flop tubes in both tanks. I bought one from Van's and one from here. If you buy one here, the nuts may not be drilled for the service bulletin and you will have to do this yourself. It can be tricky to drill the nut on an angle, but I managed to get it done.
I used just over 1 qt of MEK on one tank. I also used an entire quart kit of Proseal on one tank, though a lot of that ended up in the garbage. I did use a lot of proseal in my tank though, because I did not want a leak. I wasn't very careful about where I got it inside the tank - it won't matter. I did use a little bit of black electric tape to cover up the screw holes on the edges of the tank. While it weighs more, I figure that more is better in the case of Proseal. My tank was leak free on the first try.
I already had a kitchen scale. I put it in a large freezer bag to protect it. I used the wide popsicle sticks with the rounded tip cut off so that it was flat. The tin snips cut popsicle sticks very well. I also used the ziplock bag method on the baffle, it worked great. You will need buckets to put dirty clecos in. Make sure these buckets can handle MEK without melting. I mixed my proseal on cardboard. Flat surfaces are better for mixing, because one part of the mix can't get trapped in the corners of the bottom of a bowl or cup. I also spread a LOT of proseal and did all my fillets with my finger tip - no glove. Gloves just got in the way and I quit using them early on. I tried not to touch MEK too often with bare hands. Gabe's Grit took proseal off rather well at the end of a work day.
I used AN6 return lines, so I purchased some 3/8" ID snap bushings, 10 feet of 3/8" aluminum tubing, AN818, AN819, AN929, AN833, AN924 (one of each per tank) for the return line. You'll also want an AN929 for the vent line during leak testing. Speaking of leak testing, check out my site for how I did mine. I used a short piece of 3/8" OD tube flared with an AN818 and AN819 on the flop tube fitting, 3/8" ID clear vinyl tubing, and a hose clamp. Get some EZ-turn to seal the fuel cap and fuel drain also.
Sounds like you're only a few steps behind me. Good luck.
Oh, and I can't take credit for everything on my site - I use Brad Oliver, Mike Nipp, and Dan Checkoway's sites quite often for tips.