There are a lot of variations of these things
It is important I think that you understand what you have. It would really be worth your time to test the switch you have.
I assume from your description that you have 6 terminals on the back of a box shaped body with a toggle on the side of the box opposite the terminals.
Standard orientation for this discussion - If you hold the body of the switch so the the toggle is facing your right and the terminals to your left with two terminals on top, two in the middle and two at the bottom - the toggle motion is up and down.
The two rows of three terminals away from you is one internal switch and the three near you are the other and the only connection is the mechanical operation of the two electrically independent internal switches by the single toggle.
Physically this is not precisely how the switches are configured (they are not all the same) but you can visualize the toggle with a pivot axis inside the switch body and it extends to a pair of metal sliders that have a length just adequate to short across two terminals of their respective switches when the toggle is moved to the extreme end of its travel. In other words as everyone has said:
If the toggle is moved down the sliders on the end of the toggle opposite the pivot point are moved up and the two center terminals of the electrically isolated internal switches are connected to their top terminals.
If the toggle is moved up the sliders on the end of the toggle opposite the pivot point are moved down and the two center terminals of the electrically isolated internal switches are connected to their bottom terminals.
The function of the switch does not care what you connect to what terminal, it is up to you to design how you want the toggle action to route the electrical current. You might realize how you might want to use such a switch to apply DC current in one direction in a circuit for one direction of toggle "throw" and the opposite for the other. Lowering and raising the flaps for example where you could connect the power to the top terminal of one internal switch and the bottom of the other and ground the other two top and bottom terminals and connect the two middle terminals to the motor other polarized device to make it go one way for the up toggle throw and the opposite for the down toggle throw.
Ok now for some of the switch variations.
Two position - Some externally similar switches have only two positions of the toggle so at the end of the toggle transition the switch commons (center terminals) are either connected to their top terminals or their bottom terminals. These switches have no center detented position where the commons are not connected to either the top or the bottom terminals.
Three position - This sounds like what you have. These switches have three detented toggle positions where the center is the off position
Momentary positions - Some externally similar switch common terminals (center terminals) are connected to the selected top or bottom terminals only as long as you hold the toggle in the desired position and when released the toggle returns to the center "off" position. This momentary function may apply to both toggle throws (like the flap switch) or only one (such as you might want for a test or pulse in one direction and latched on in the other).
This is just something I will throw in about switches that really does not apply to you immediate case. Panel space became a little tight for me because I wanted to leave some space for a storm scope after I had the airplane flying (that never happened but I needed the space for another mod so it worked out well). I selected several combination switch/circuit breakers for my panel where one switch envelope contains both functions.
I suggest getting an ohmmeter or a battery and a light and test your switch so you know exactly what you are dealing with.
NEVER EVER STRESS THE PHYSICAL SWITCH BY DOING ANYTHING TO IT'S TERMINALS EXCEPT CONNECT WIRES TO THEM - OR NOT.
Bob Axsom