I have come across quite a few builders that manage to successfully strike a balance between building and family commitments. During Technical Counselor / DAR visits to various projects, I have queried builders that seem to do well at striking a balance that will keep the project moving and not interfere with family relationships and or job commitments.
One builder (he will read this) that I thought was doing particularly well in this respect is now experiencing difficulty with his wife. Mind you, this wife agreed to the time and financial requirements of the project, gave up her garage and even sanctioned the purchase of a new hangar. She even bought a new SL-30 Navcom for her husband?s birthday. But the builder, seeing the finish line clearly in sight has let the project become the main focus in his life. The airplane has become has major reason for getting up in the morning, and issues concerning the finish of his project are affecting all aspects of his life. He has come to realize that he is obsessed with the project; all the while likely dealing with what many of us men would call a mid life crisis.
If any builders on this forum have had personal experiences along these lines, it would be interesting to review the comments and final outcome of their dilemma; including the solution found to resolve the issue.
One builder (he will read this) that I thought was doing particularly well in this respect is now experiencing difficulty with his wife. Mind you, this wife agreed to the time and financial requirements of the project, gave up her garage and even sanctioned the purchase of a new hangar. She even bought a new SL-30 Navcom for her husband?s birthday. But the builder, seeing the finish line clearly in sight has let the project become the main focus in his life. The airplane has become has major reason for getting up in the morning, and issues concerning the finish of his project are affecting all aspects of his life. He has come to realize that he is obsessed with the project; all the while likely dealing with what many of us men would call a mid life crisis.
If any builders on this forum have had personal experiences along these lines, it would be interesting to review the comments and final outcome of their dilemma; including the solution found to resolve the issue.