Thanks you guys.
I think I get the jist of it although it is still a bit cornfusing.
I think I'll have to actually do it to make sense of it but the information above is a great start.
Steve
It seems to me that we have pontificated a lot without really answering your original question.
I'll tell you how I manage my prop on a typical cross-country:
I start the engine , warm up and taxi with the prop control fully forward.
During the run up, after checking the mags, I "cycle" the prop a few times. This means that with the engine at 1800 RPM or so and the stick fully back I will bring the prop control smoothly back until I see/feel the RPM begin to drop. You can watch the tach but you are really just looking for a drop which you can hear and feel. The airplane will feel as if it wants to surge forward as the prop takes a "bigger bite" of air. Your oil pressure will also drop a little. As soon as I feel the drop, I quickly but smoothly move the prop control back forward. You don't want to hold it back, just see it begin to move. I do this 2-3 times on the first flight of the day to circulate warm oil through the prop.
For takeoff (near sea level) the prop and mixture are fully forward. I advance the throttle smoothly to the stop and rotate, looking for Vy until clear of obstacles, then pitching down a little for a cruise climb. Everything stays forward on a normal takeoff until I'm above all obstacles. I note the WOT/full rich/sea level EGT. The intial prop RPM is about 2600 but quickly builds to 2700 as the airplane begins to move.
Others will differ here, but my first power reduction after takeoff is a slight reduction in the prop RPM to 2500-2600 RPM. The throttle stays fully forward, and the manifold pressure reduces itself automatically because of the climb. The prop RPM reduction dramatically lowers the noise produced by the prop tips.
The EGTs will begin to fall as the airplane climbs, and I will pull the mixture back in small increments, keeping the EGT at or below the takeoff EGT (I have my airplane setup so the WOT EGT is about 200 degrees rich of peak)
I normally cruise between 9 and 12 thousand feet, and leave the prop and mixture alone until leveling off and allowing the airplane to accelerate as much as it can. The throttle will stay wide open, and I usually set the prop between 2400 and 2600 depending on the noise/speed tradeoff I'm looking for. I then lean the airplane and typically don't touch the prop again until short final. The throttle will stay wide open until I begin my descent.
The prop goes fully forward (slowly) on short final at about 85 knots and maybe 15" MP.