Rick is right - there is already a fair amount of commonality in the data transfer world - RS-232 and a lot of common formats.
I read the OP as bringing up much more than common data transfer protocols. I think he's ultimately referring to intellectual property rights and the tension between creators and buyers of IP.
The tension has existed for hundreds of years and is embodied in the USA constitution:
Article I, Section 8, Clause 8 of the United States Constitution, known as the Intellectual Property Clause and the Progressive Clause, empowers the United States Congress “To promote the Progress of Science and useful Arts, by securing for limited Times to Authors and Inventors the exclusive Right to their respective Writings and Discoveries."
Unfortunately Congress has long sided with the creators,
extending copyright to well over 100 years! And letting software be patented.
The Open Source movement, pioneered by Richard Stallman of the
Free Software Foundation, is a reaction against excessive protection of IP which results not in the "Progress of Science and useful Arts", but maximum corporate profits (well, maybe not, but that's what they think) and minimum progress.
Since software has different IP properties than writings or physical inventions, I'd like to see Congress create some new laws to accomodate it. Specifically require
source code escrow and allow software to be patented only for, say, 5 years. But they're too busy investigating baseball players and other urgent matters for the national well being.
There is precedent for clever end users to develop their own open source application software for hardware. Got an MP3 player? It came with its own proprietary playing and downloading program, but you can download and install an open source program,
Rockbox, for many MP3 players; considered superior to the proprietary program by many. It can actually help manufacturers because they can devote their resources to improving hardware and let the open source community provide a robust application program for their product.
Unlikely, I suppose, for the same to happen with our EFIS displays, but I fully sympathize with the OP's concerns. Perhaps the more progressive EFIS manufacturers will at least put their proprietary software into escrow in case they go bankrupt and can't maintain it anymore.