Dimple the skin, use regular nutplates
On a number of locations on my -7A I had to install nutplates on .025" and .032" skin and I just dimpled the skin and riveted the nutplates directly to the dimpled crown. As an old-timer A&P once told me, "It's not the rivets that hold the nutplate to the sheet metal, it's the screw in the middle. The rivets are just there to keep it from turning while you install the screw." I measured one the first time and the gap between the skin and the nutplate is around .005-010". You may notice the center of the nutplate draw in very slightly to the aluminum skin but not enough to disturb the integrity of the fasteners. In my experience the flush heads seem to have a better fit into a dimple than a c'sink as well, as far as being at or very slightly below flush. Just my experience. Remember, you're building an RV, not a Rolex.