A word from an experienced RV-8 GIB
After reading this discussion, I've concluded that Paul's swizzle stick really is the best answer (for us). Not only can I control the throttle, I can also reach the mixture and prop. I bet that I can disconnect (and engage) the AP, as well, although I haven't tried. Trim? I've flown an RV badly out-of-trim for over an hour before. I could probably also hit the flip-flop button on the radio, although I doubt that I could tune them. Of course, we'll ground-loop after landing with no rudders, but that will be the least of my worries in such a situation. (BTW, my legs can reach the throttle control but I wouldn't expect everyone's to be that long.)
As for someone with little or no pilot's experience landing an RV-8 from the back, I think they have virtually no chance. If you really want your non- (or low time) pilot/passenger to have a shot at landing the plane with an incapacitated PIC, build a side-by-side and build the panel as standard as possible. (Of course, then they get hit by the bird, as well.) I'm not seeing a real value in adding a lot of gizmos to the back for emergency uses. A PTT, swizzle stick, and rudders seem to me to cover the emergency applications.