Do the research, it can and has happened.
While I was building, a two time offender told me the valve in his RV-6A failed at 100 hours, its replacement failed at 150 hours in a position that partially off. He couldn't move it and landed at the nearest airport where he put in a third valve. When he returned home, he grounded the plane until he installed new fuel lines and an Andair valve.
He told me this story just as I was about to install the Van's valve and it was enough to make me open my wallet for the Andair.
Caution needs to be used so as to avoid generalizing, which can cause confusion. RV kits have not always been supplied with the same fuel valve (though they both look very similar).
The early valve (supplied until about the mid 90's) had only three ports (two in, and one out), and they were all on the sides of the valve. The valve body and movable spindle were both made of brass. It was common that as they aged, the lube would be washed out by the fuel, and the brass spindle would begin to gall in the body. Because RV builders in general are not aircraft mechanics (or plumbers) and since these are home built airplanes, it was not common knowledge that they required periodic maintenance (be lubed with fuel lube no less!).
About that time a new valve was introduced that has a fuel resistant, self lubricating plastic spindle. It has three inlet ports (on the sides)and one outlet port (on the bottom). It is not a direct replacement for the early valve so often when people had problems with the early valve they simple replaced it with a new one of the same type (much less work), but if they failed to do the regular lubrication maintenance they were destine to have a repeat of their original problem.
The early valve worked fine if properly maintained, but I will admit that it wasn't the best choice.... lubing the valve required that the fuel level in each tank be lower than the valve elevation... and just the hassle of doing it.
As far as I am aware, there has not been any service difficulties with the newer style valve. I have never had to replace one. They work!
(A little bit of RV history/trivia... Old Blue, the RV-6A prototype is still flying, doing transition training with Mike Seager. It now has almost 4700 hrs and still has the early style fuel valve installed. How? It has been properly maintained!)
Bill, I am not meaning to say that it is obvious that your friend was dealing with an early style valve... just pointing out that it is a possible explanation, and that the current valves should not be condemned just because of his experience.
But my main point is... That sometimes we need to look at things through a wide angle lens instead of a microscope.