Well, I think it finally works right!
I changed the baud rate to normal and my Dynon 10a CDI screen still was intermittent. The next and last thing to try was hooking the orange/white unused wire to ground, I did that and my CDI screen now stays working!
So the main thing that is not in the wiring instructions from Garmin is hooking the orange/white unused wire to ground. If your installing the Garmin GDL39 with a bare wires cable be sure to do this step to keep everything working right.
