First off, my understanding is that absolute EGT numbers are not really useful, I wouldn't worry about them being "uneven". One of their main uses is identifying where the peak EGT is for each individual cylinder and trying to get each one to its own peak at close to the same fuel flow. Regarding oil temp, is the oil cooler shutter on the front of the cooler or back? I know it doesn't make sense but I have seen examples where the shutter was moved from the back to the front and it made a big difference in the effectivenes of the shutter. You can also use adhesive backed metal foil to close off the front of the opening to the oil cooler in cool seasons.
You can also use the same foil to act as an air dam on either the #1 or #2 (front) cylinders to rob some of their cooling air to provide more for the back cylinders. It doesn't always follow that blanking on the front of one side will provide more cooling for the back cylinder on the SAME side. It's a process of try it, test it, modify it, test it. In my case I found that a strip about 1" high and 4" long taped to the front of the cooling fins on #1 helped bring #4 down in cruise. But it changed #3 in climb so you need to determine what flight regime is most critical to you. It's easy to fixate on imperfections in cruise when you have all the time in the world to look at things, but frequently climb is the most critical phase for temperatures.
Some experimentation with metal tape and a test flying mental approach might be some fun flying and then you see what you get and make your choices
All Best
Jeremy Constant