I agree with all above. You should not fall out of the sky in a ball of flames as a result of installing 3 washers under the nut side!
I just installed my engine mount and discovered the same thing.
Just pointing out the obvious to those who are getting close to this point; I installed one washer on the head side and two under the nut side.
This was only necessary (for me anyways) on the two top bolts.
YMMV...

CJ