Hi Mike,
I went down this path. I literally interpreted "rotate the wheel and tire while tightening the axle nut until it is so tight that you are unable to turn the wheel and tire. " so that's what I did. Common sense finally kicked in and I stopped doing what I was doing. Part of my todo list before moving the project to the hanger is so inspect the hub to make I didn't bend/distort it. I just inspected the left side and all looks good. <phew>
I think what Grove means is "... so tight that you are unable to turn the wheel and tire
freely." This is supported by a couple sentences down when they say "Loosen the axle nut just enough so that the wheel and tire are on the ?edge? of rotating freely." I repeated this process a couple of times and called it good.
Grove could certainly improve their instructions. I doubt that many folks have a 1-1/2 socket or a crows-foot lying around so that a torque value could be specified. Perhaps something like:
"... so tight that you are unable to turn the wheel and tire freely. While turning the wheel and tire, tighten the axle nut an additional 1/4 turn. Finally, loosen the axle nut just enough so that the wheel and tire are on the ?edge? of rotating freely."
The "1/4 turn" is just a number I made up. It could just as well be something else and is only an example. I believe that he intent of seating of the bearings is performed, though.
Disclaimer: This is pure speculation on my part as I don't represent Grove in any fashion or manner.