Thanks for the input guys.
Bob-I fixed the sender by buying a new one

The resistor appeared intact in every way except by direct measurement and it took a few minutes for the intermittence to appear. It is 470ohms as described by GRT schematics, their literature, by verifying the color bands and verifying two new ones with a DVM. Replaced with a new one.
dmaib-a new redundant ground was the first thing I tried with the old failure mode, and it turns out that it is still necessary on this tank but not on the other tank
My painful process today was: Tank was empty, started the calibration ala GRT, filled the tank, continued the calibration and then tried to verify everything was working by emptying the tank, a metered amount at a time. Kept waiting for the float to start moving -- never did. Empty tank, gauge read full @#$^&$%&!!!!!! At least it didn't read -10 so the old problems were solved...
Pulled the sender, too much friction in the pivot, redid the bend with a tighter radius, changed the angle to move the float to where it would exert more force with gravity and reinstalled. It now works properly. Phew!!!!
One note: I was debating whether or not to reinstall the float with Pro Seal as I had done on the first installation or use the included rubber/silicone gasket. I used the gasket. Thank goodness...the float needed to come in and out at least 4 more times to get things right and the gasket never leaked. I used a very thin film of EZ Turn/Fuel Lube on both sides of the gasket.
All Best
Jeremy