I posted the question a while back and Rick was the only respondant. I can only guess that the RV-10 engine mount is huge because the AP supplied brackets won't fit for me at all.

I queried Don Rivera about the problem and was told they didn't have a 6,7,9A to use for developing brackets for them. Fair enough, especially as they do much more than RVs.
So, anyway, I finally figured out my own set of brackets. I got an A&P friend to look it over and so I'm confident that it'll work Ok; his only suggestion was getting them welded instead of riveted but he didn't think it would be a problem. So I've documented it on my
website and if there's anyone else out there who runs into the same issue you won't have to do the head-scratching I did.
By the way, thanks to Don for quick and honest response. Makes me glad I went with their product.