I had the same problem.
I shaved off the outer portion of the weight with a file. I was afraid it wouldn't balance right. It was still "overbalanced" when I was done, there is plenty of weight that you can take a little off. By the way, if you shave too much, you can use micro on the lead when you mount the tip to fill the gap.
If you are really concerned about it, there are a couple threads with pictures where you can use the tooling hole in the elevator counterweight arms to mount a nutplate 3/16 or 1/4 on the inside(inside the fiberglass tip) of the arm. You can then put large washers on a bolt then mount the bolt on the inboard side of the elevator counterweight arm, through the tooling hole into the nutplate. Picture here:
http://www.vansairforce.com/communit...vator+nutplate
As for the edge distance, I found that my holes were very close to the edge of the fiberglass. When I bonded the aluminum, I left overhang because when I measured the thickness of the fiberglass, it was thicker than the end rib flanges. When I fit the tip, I was right. It slid right in, the aluminum backing sliding over the top of the rib flange. The aluminum gave me plenty of edge distance.
hope it helps....