I will add to the confusion
It is not a question of the strength of a particular member. Putting on a "stronger" stab or rudder is not going to necessarily allow you to go faster. The issue is: what is the resonant frequency of the structure (which varies as a function of stiffness and inertia), vs the resonant frequency of the moving control surface (which varies as a function of true airspeed and its intertia [mass balance comes in to play here]). When these 2 frequencies, or their harmonics, intersect, the structural oscillation diverges, rather than converges, and the structure will tear itself apart, sometimes in milliseconds. This is an extremely simplistic explanation of a complex subject of which I only understand the most basic principles.
At the company where I work, we do ground vibration testing to figure out the structural frequencies, then based on that they do predictions of structural damping vs TAS and Mach and then we go fly with lots of accelerometers on the airplane and flutter exciters, trained test pilots with parachutes and a high speed drag chute on the airplane, and we inch out to the edge of the envelope, often with days between test points for analysis, to ensure that the trends we are seeing with increases in speed are acceptable.
So you can assemble an army of engineers and specialized test equipment and do the testing in a similar fashion, or you can just go out and put it in a dive and see how it goes and hope for the best. You can see how one approach might a whole lot more risky than the other one. It is really hard to do this safely without a lot of knowledgeable people supporting you. Or you can respect Vne and you will know that you have a margin of safety.