I disassembled mine today - it was easier than I thought with the help of #2 son - and all looked fine, no evidence at all of failure of The Lord plate or the cup.
Pictures of the top before disassembly:

(The black spot is a drop of oil)
Picture of top of "cup" after disassembly:
Picture of bottom of "cup" after disassembly:

The mottling is just wear of the powder coat. I greased this area with Lithium grease but I saw no evidence of cracks or deformation.
Note slight abrasion to two welds at 4:00 and 7:00, which is where the brass disc on the top Lord was conflicting slightly.
The brass disc on the top of the top Lord was slightly deformed in two places at the outer edge where it had been in slight contact with two welds on the "cup."
Pic of affected Lord disc:
I flipped some of the Lord cushions around and greased everything with some lithium grease then put it back together. I relieved the edge of the new top brass disc to prevent conflicting with the welds. The 4 lord cushions were exactly 4.25" uncompressed.
I was able to easily add the second washer, but there was no play in that area when I lifted the nose off the ground and moved the gear leg up and down prior to disassembly. All the play seemed to be in the bushing, but it wasn't much.
580 hours TT, 99% on good hard surface. I always aim for good Mike Seager nose wheel discipline as Vic described.