The manual you need to download from Slick is L1318H. It lists the harnesses from Slick and which engine they go to.
IIRC, the M4001 and the M4004 are two of the most common harnesses for Lycomings. You can order the half harness (R side or L side) but it is cheaper to buy the whole harness and then you have parts.
I had the same problem in building up an M1B and I was using a Lightspeed. I talked with a supplier and we finally figured out either the 4001 or 4004 would work, and I chose the 4004. My M1B engine adventure fell apart so I never got to see if it would have worked.
I am not sure why Lycoming said not to shorten the original-style wires because I thought you could and there are people out there who can pretty much assemble them.
I also thought that the factory certified M1B had a Lasar ignition, maybe thats why the harnesses are different???
Also, I haven't compared the routing patterns from the A1A and the M1B but they ought to be about the same. I would stick to the original pattern if you could.
Dave A.